Psychology Professor and Licensed Psychologist
Gavilan College
5055 Santa Teresa Boulevard
Gilroy, California 95020
(408) 852-2808
Office: Social Science Building, Room 202A
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Monday and Wednesday: 9:30 a.m. to 10:30 a.m.
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Thursday: 1:00 p.m. to 2:00 p.m. and 4:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m.
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Greetings. I am a Psychology Professor here at Gavilan College. I was raised in San Francisco, California,
and have been fortunate to amass 26 years of clinical (e.g., staff psychologist, clinical supervisor, inservice
director, consultant) and teaching (e.g., associate professor of psychology, associate professor of psychology
and counseling) experience in a variety of mental health and academic settings all around the United States.
I am licensed as a Psychologist in California (# PSY 20356) and New York (# 015719), registered as a National
Health Service Provider in Psychology (# 50889), and board certified as a Doctoral Addictions Counselor (# 4541)
and Professional Christian Counselor (# 0079). I am a graduate of Lowell High School (San Francisco, California),
and have a B.A. in Psychology from San Francisco State University, a M.S. in Counseling and Mental Health
from California State University, Hayward, and a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology from the University of Cincinnati.
Psychology and Psychology-related Associations to Explore
National Latina/o Psychological Association (NLPA)
California Latina/o Psychological Association (CLPA) (and numerous other valuable Latino/a links)
Asian American Psychological Association (AAPA)
Society of Indian Psychologists (SIP)
Association of Black Psychologists (ABpsi)
American Psychological Association (APA)
American Counseling Association (ACA)
Society for the Psychology of Women (Division 35 of APA)
Psychology of Religion (Division 36 of APA)
Health Psychology (Division 38 of APA)
Forensic Psychology (information on how to become a Forensic Psychologist, including criminal profiling)
California Psychological Association
California Board of Psychology (information on how to become licensed as a Psychologist in California)
Board of Behavioral Sciences (information on how to become licensed as a Marriage and Family Therapist,
Social Worker, or Educational Psychologist in California)
American Art Therapy Association (information on how to become an Art Therapist)
National Association of Drama Therapy (information on how to become a Drama Therapist)
American Music Therapy Association (information on how to become a Music Therapist)
National Association of Social Workers (NASW)
NEWSTART—principles to maximize overall health
NEWSTART Magazine (describes the principles to maximize overall health under "Steps to Radiant Living")—a must see!
Weimar Institute of Health and Education (a health treatment center based on NEWSTART; vegetarian cookbooks/videos)
Sette Publishing (articles/books on health and wellness; info sheets on health; vegetarian cookbooks/recipes)
Worthington Loma Linda, Morningstar Farms (vegetarian products)—tend to be high in sodium, so don't eat too much too often
Body Mass Index (BMI) Calculator (find out if you are in the weight range best for your health)


Health Links to Explore
The Merck Manual Medical Library
Healthy Life (health and wellness information)
Uchee Pines Institute, Lifestyle Center of America (health treatment centers using natural remedies;
vegetarian cookbooks/videos; vegetarian restuarant)
A Directory of Natural Medicine Homepages
Natural Medicines Comprehensive Database
The Alternative Medicine Homepage
Medical Abstracts on Various Herbal/Natural Remedies
Vitamins, Supplements and Natural Health Products
Health Information in Spanish, Chinese, Korean, Tagalog, and Vietnamese
Encyclopedia of Mental Health (information on all types of everything related to mental health)
Other Interesting Links to Explore
Online Psychology Career Center, Careers in Psychology
Free Online Personality Test and Quizzes
PsychScholar (a collection of psychology links of all kinds, including links to
psychology departments in the USA and around the world)
50 States Colleges (links to all of the college and university home pages in the USA)
Diverse Issues in Higher Education (a multicultural perspective on education)
HowStuffWorks.com (explanations for how just about anything works)
Reference Desk.com (a good source for facts of all kinds)
Some Quotes/Sayings to Live by from Me to You
“True joy comes from serving, not being served.”
“What better way to live than give.”
“What makes life worth the living is giving.”
“If your happiness comes from giving rather than getting, you have plenty of
opportunity to feel this way.”
“Giving springs from viewing people as more important than my time, my money,
and my things.”
“Love is choosing over and over to say and do the things only for the best
good of another—it is a principle practiced that should not be based on feelings.”
“The best jobs I’ve ever had, had me.”
“Those who don’t take care of business are soon out of business.”
“Optimism is the life blood of motivation.”
“Dreams without drive turn into nightmares.”
“Wisdom has to come from above if we don’t want to be-low.”
“If I had to do it all over again, I’d start from above.”
“The goal is not to be the best, but to do the best you can.”
“If you don’t think much of yourself, it will be hard to believe that anyone will either.”
“If people don't see it in you, telling them about it won’t make it so.”
“It is not only difficult to give what you don’t have, but to receive what you feel you
don’t deserve.”
“Too often, we make things harder than they have to be.”
“Many continue in a path that seems right to them because they haven’t been informed
of a better way.”
“Everyone can benefit from a check up from the neck up.”
“You can’t lead anybody anywhere they don’t already want to go, so if they’re not
budging, back-off or you’ll push them away.”
“Procrastination is a dagger in the back of academic success.”
“True education encompasses more than just enhancement of the mental faculties—what
about the physical, social and spiritual dimensions?”
“You can do what you wanna do when you wanna do it; you just don’t wanna do it yet,
if at all.”
“It takes most, if not all your time, energy and effort to be someone else, but little if any
to be yourself”
“Next time someone does you wrong, do them right.”
“Don’t ask me what I think, if you only want to hear yourself.”
“How can you take care of two—that relationship with your boyfriend, girlfriend or
spouse—when you can’t even take care of one—that relationship with yourself?”
“No one made you do it, you chose to.”
“Chose to do the right thing in the vulnerable moment.”
“Three torpedoes sink a person's life: one from within—low self-esteem, and two from
without—unhealthy relationships with someone or some thing/activity.”
“If the cost of staying is greater than the cost of leaving and there is no change in sight,
get out!”
“Eat to live, don’t live to eat.”
“We take better care of the cars we ride in than our bodies we reside in.”
“If you neglect your health, you’re casting to the ground most important wealth.”
“Overweight? If you want to lose 10+ pounds and keep it off, drop dinner; if you want to
lose 25+ pounds and keep it off, drop dinner and fast food; if you want to lose 40+ pounds
and keep it off, drop dinner and fast food, and exercise to the point of perspiration at least
3 times a week for 30 minutes.”—guaranteed if you stick with it
“Most of the time, we have a love-hate relationship with almost everything.”
“Materialism is an obsessional desire for more and more and better and better
things—and one is never satisfied enough.”
“Once you distinguish between needs (necessary for survival) and wants (not necessary for
survival), and focus much less on striving for wants; stress decreases and contentment
abounds.”
“Addiction to anything (including television) is often a time-sucker, mind messer-upper,
health disrupter, relationship corrupter, and financial abductor.”
“Hooked on alcohol or other drugs?—get help to straighten up before you’re straightened out.”
“Let go the mouse and get out the house.”
“Put down the remote and pick up a life.”
“The best gift you can give your children is a good marriage.”
“We’re supposed to build our lives around our children, not our children around
our lives.”
“Want to cripple your children for life? Give them everything they want and fight
all their battles.”
“The vast majority of the discriminated against don’t want handouts, just hands-off.”
“Only with representative and mutual input, can representative and mutual benefit more
likely result.”
“If you think you have it bad, take a good look around you—there is always someone
who would gladly trade places with you.”
Copyright © 2008
Carlton H. Oler, Ph.D.